That makes sense I guess, I can't really blame you for not wanting to fully support it if it has so many things that rub you the wrong way about it. though i will say, I think you should worry less about that stuff; Nintendo's been pretty good with patching known issues with its games on the Wii U lately, like with the patches to mario kart and smash. I think theyre probably aware of the lobby complaint by now and will fix it. Also when you look at the list of stages available to play, there's actually room for a third stage, so I bet when there's more stages to play on they'll start offering 3 every four hours, and then maybe even 3 every 2 hours eventually maybe. (and so far, turf war and splat zones have each featured a different selection of stages from eachother at the same time, so I think this will become much less of an issue than it is now)
There's probably a thread or 2 or 100 about voice chat, but if my opinion's worth anything, i'm really glad there isn't any because one time I literally yelled "TAKE THAT YOU *******" at a player I killed and it really wouldn't sit well with me if that had been a young child who could hear me on the receiving end lol.
well, this was all pretty off-topic lol but i felt like this would make you feel a little less uneasy about the game