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I'm shivering now 😰 I'm sorry to hear this
I know it seems kinda weird that I haven’t said anything about it but I mage the thread soooo
2 years ago I had a boy I liked and I think he liked me but I wasn’t rlly sure ._.
looong story short he did and we got together and things were going rlly good but…
he started coming to me with all of his problems and I didn’t rlly know how to deal with it. I tired to be helpful but I don’t think I changed anything. on October 18 he decided to take his life.
I haven’t had a bf since and I won’t have one for a while. I still can’t rlly get over it and I’m not ready for another one
 

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I know it seems kinda weird that I haven’t said anything about it but I mage the thread soooo
2 years ago I had a boy I liked and I think he liked me but I wasn’t rlly sure ._.
looong story short he did and we got together and things were going rlly good but…
he started coming to me with all of his problems and I didn’t rlly know how to deal with it. I tired to be helpful but I don’t think I changed anything. on October 18 he decided to take his life.
I haven’t had a bf since and I won’t have one for a while. I still can’t rlly get over it and I’m not ready for another one
Oh god I'm sorry, don't take the blame on yourself, there's a lot of factors that cause this, this sounds like a complicated situation. And yeah, take your time with this, if you can get therapy, I'd highly recommend it to learn to deal with this.
 

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Oh god I'm sorry, don't take the blame on yourself, there's a lot of factors that cause this, this sounds like a complicated situation. And yeah, take your time with this, if you can get therapy, I'd highly recommend it to learn to deal with this.
I agree!

I'm sorry to hear about this, How-SweeT!. But you talking about it is a good step. Therapy can really help in both the short and the long run.
You deserve help, so don't be afraid to ask for it :)
 

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I agree!

I'm sorry to hear about this, How-SweeT!. But you talking about it is a good step. Therapy can really help in both the short and the long run.
You deserve help, so don't be afraid to ask for it :)
I agree x2! grief is natural and its fine to feel it (wise words of my therapist)

you got this How-SweetT!. !!!
 

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yea…idk

any therapists y’all recommend? I haven’t thought abt therapy
 

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yea…idk

any therapists y’all recommend? I haven’t thought abt therapy
a local one. meeting face to face is best imho. and I just know ones up in northern sweden so I don't think that'll help much ^^

if you go to school then the first step might to to meet up with a councelor you got there. if you have one? they should have offered help already but I dunno how things go where you're at sorry.
 

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