Catloafman
Inkling Commander
I used to really like one for a while but I didn't realise how much I was obsessed until she moved away I just hope I didn't make it too obvious (I totally did)
look. look if you ever happen to be on a train with this guy again. you know what you have to doFun story though: I was on a somewhat empty train very recently and there's a guy in a seat further in the wagon, who looked really cool, and who rings my gaydar a little. And then for the last 20 minutes we kept doing awkward eye contact for suspicious amounts of time and staring at each other, so I get bold and start making scenarios in my head until I decide screw it, if he gets off at my stop I'm asking his number, shame be damned.
He did not get off at my stop, heartbreaking. We stared at each other again as I was going out and I just smiled at him. I might have missed the love of my life that day, a tragedy.
I'm sorry she had called you that.Ahh... I remember it like it was yesterday. 6th grade I had this crush on this girl I really like, but I didn't tell her at least directly. I was in computer class and talking with some of my classmates and somehow we got on topic of crushes. They said they didn't have a crush on anybody I did for some idiotic reason. They would not let up and was bombarding me with questions like "Who it is?" "Does she come to our school?" "Is it somebody in our class?".
I didn't tell them anything except for the fact that it was somebody who had a as the second letter of their name. horrible idea as there was two people in our class who had an a as the second letter in their name. So they proceeded to ask "Is it [Girl A]?" to which I replied no they then asked "Is it [Girl B]" to which I decided to reply YES. They then proceed to shout this girl name at the top of their lungs to which FREAKING EVERYONE heard.
Before we continue you know that saying that goes the worse that could happen is them saying no? Well I'm here to say that's false here is what happened
The girl hearing her named called came to our table
"What was yall calling me for?"
"Somebody have a crush on you!"
"What! who is it?"
*Points to me while I proceeded to smile like I was a chimp being given a banana*
Out of everything she could've said she said "ew" and proceeded to walk back to her table. Keep in mind EVERYONE WAS WATCHING!!!
That was the biggest blow to my confidence ever I laughed it off, but inside it was basically an emotional critical hit.
Keep in mind she's not a bad person. in fact I still go to the same high school as her, but still ew? I get that 6th graders are usually ugly, but no other words to deny me except ew!
I'm over it now since it was a middle school crush and there was 0 chance that relationship would've lasted longer than a 3 months if she said yes. I wouldn't even say I'm hurt much by it even back then. But still man ew is just rough.
Anyway moral of the story unless it's somebody you trust don't tell anybody your crush. (Surprised there is a moral here.)
No worries like I said it was middle school relationships there last for 6 months at most and beside I'm wayyyy over at this point I just decided to share that story since yknow the thread being about crushes and all that.I'm sorry she had called you that.
I hope you can find another girl who actually likes you and not say hurtful things to you at first sight.
when i'm in a 'telling someone's crush about their feelings for them' challenge and my opponent is the average middle schoolerAhh... I remember it like it was yesterday. 6th grade I had this crush on this girl I really like, but I didn't tell her at least directly. I was in computer class and talking with some of my classmates and somehow we got on topic of crushes. They said they didn't have a crush on anybody I did for some idiotic reason. They would not let up and was bombarding me with questions like "Who it is?" "Does she come to our school?" "Is it somebody in our class?".
I didn't tell them anything except for the fact that it was somebody who had a as the second letter of their name. horrible idea as there was two people in our class who had an a as the second letter in their name. So they proceeded to ask "Is it [Girl A]?" to which I replied no they then asked "Is it [Girl B]" to which I decided to reply YES. They then proceed to shout this girl name at the top of their lungs to which FREAKING EVERYONE heard.
Before we continue you know that saying that goes the worse that could happen is them saying no? Well I'm here to say that's false here is what happened
The girl hearing her named called came to our table
"What was yall calling me for?"
"Somebody have a crush on you!"
"What! who is it?"
*Points to me while I proceeded to smile like I was a chimp being given a banana*
Out of everything she could've said she said "ew" and proceeded to walk back to her table. Keep in mind EVERYONE WAS WATCHING!!!
That was the biggest blow to my confidence ever I laughed it off, but inside it was basically an emotional critical hit.
Keep in mind she's not a bad person. in fact I still go to the same high school as her, but still ew? I get that 6th graders are usually ugly, but no other words to deny me except ew!
I'm over it now since it was a middle school crush and there was 0 chance that relationship would've lasted longer than a 3 months if she said yes. I wouldn't even say I'm hurt much by it even back then. But still man ew is just rough.
Anyway moral of the story unless it's somebody you trust don't tell anybody your crush. (Surprised there is a moral here.)
Compersion, huh? I didn't know the name but I know first hand that it's a cornerstone of well functioning poly relationships ^^.....so today i learned a new word that describes some feelings i've had in the (not-so-distant) past,
makes sense! i just didn't know there was a word for the feeling. (i called it 'secondhand warm fuzzies??' up until learning the word lol.) the person i've been crushing on for... a year and a half... is polyamorous and the fact that seeing/hearing about them spending time with their partners gave me that feeling instead of Burning Jealousy tipped me off to the fact that i... may not be as monogamous as i thought i was, lol. i've never really been a jealous person, so...Compersion, huh? I didn't know the name but I know first hand that it's a cornerstone of well functioning poly relationships ^^
oh my god, i'm so sorry. please don't feel rushed to "get over it". take all the time you need to grieve.I know it seems kinda weird that I haven’t said anything about it but I mage the thread soooo
2 years ago I had a boy I liked and I think he liked me but I wasn’t rlly sure ._.
looong story short he did and we got together and things were going rlly good but…
he started coming to me with all of his problems and I didn’t rlly know how to deal with it. I tired to be helpful but I don’t think I changed anything. on October 18 he decided to take his life.
I haven’t had a bf since and I won’t have one for a while. I still can’t rlly get over it and I’m not ready for another one
Holy… I’m so sorry…I know it seems kinda weird that I haven’t said anything about it but I mage the thread soooo
2 years ago I had a boy I liked and I think he liked me but I wasn’t rlly sure ._.
looong story short he did and we got together and things were going rlly good but…
he started coming to me with all of his problems and I didn’t rlly know how to deal with it. I tired to be helpful but I don’t think I changed anything. on October 18 he decided to take his life.
I haven’t had a bf since and I won’t have one for a while. I still can’t rlly get over it and I’m not ready for another one